EastEnders fans ‘needed tissues’ as they heap praise on ‘fantastic’ Nigel episode

You cried. We cried. Everybody cried. Damn you, EastEnders!

‘Needed tissues tonight’ Charlotte Jade commented on Facebook. Girl, same!

Nigel Bates’ (Paul Bradley) dementia storyline, in all of it’s raw, gritty and unflinching glory, has proven to be an undisputed highlight of EastEnders in recent times, particularly when Zoe Slater’s (Michelle Ryan) cyclical plotlines have seemingly irritated rather than entertained fans, and the renewed focus on gangsterism and drug cartels have proven divisive.

Paul Bradley’s visceral portrayal of Nigel, utterly ravaged by his cruel disease, has been truly wonderful, while Steve McFadden’s powerhouse performance of emotionally fraught and broken Phil Mitchell, so desperate to make his best friend’s life better while fighting a battle he can’t win, has proven once again why Steve is among the British acting elite.

While Nigel’s wife, Julie, has dealt with the situation far more pragmatically than headstrong Phil, Karen Henthorn has infused her performance with enough fragility to show the deep wounds that the stress of her husbands deteriorating condition have left on her, with tears often betraying her pained smile and platitudes, while the re-emergence of Clare Bates, and Gemma Bissix pulling out a delicate, tear jerking performance, brought added a further dimension to the cruel effects of dementia on a sufferer’s family.

Nigel Bates says goodbye to the Square

 

With Clare and Lexi Pearce (Isabella Brown), the latter fuelled by memories of her own mum’s passing, bringing Nigel home to Albert Square for a goodbye gathering at the Vic, the sobering reality of how unwell he truly is was contrasted by the well wishes of his assembled friends and neighbours.

Julie finally put her past with Clare to the side, encouraging Nigel to remember the times he’d shared with his adopted daughter, and, as the memories awoke something within him, Clare was overcome in a tornado of emotion as Nigel experienced a moment of clarity and finally recognised her.

As Nigel drove away to the care home, Oscar Branning (Pierre Counihan-Moullier) grimly commented to George Knight (Colin Salmon) that he’d likely never return. George’s confirmation as the congregation clapped and cheered highlighted the incredibly painful reality that ran alongside the earnest and sweet efforts of the residents of Walford.

 

Things turned even more bleak at the care home, as Nigel lashed out, striking Clare. She fled, the emotional rollercoaster she’d been on since learning of her dad’s condition only days before finally breaking her.

As Nigel struggled with frustration, confusion and anger before wetting himself, Phil struggled to maintain control of his emotions.

After an in-depth talk with a carer at the facility, Phil was confronted with a truth he’d seemingly yet to acknowledge: he can’t save Nigel. There’s nothing for him to punch, no amount of Mitchell bravado can force dementia to retreat, and he’s dangerously close to burning out completely.

With a tearful and clearly agonising goodbye to Nigel, Phil accepted defeat, and found himself completely unable to accept Nigel’s new reality as he left, looking completely lost in a world totally alien to him. He may be the top dog of Albert Square, but here, in this care home? He’s as terrified and vulnerable as anybody else.

EastEnders viewers shed tears

Metro readers were hit hard with emotion, with all of the actors involved, including young Isabelle, lavished with praise.

The emotional episode hit Lindsey Fulton hard: ‘Great episode, great acting from Phil, Nigel, Lexi, Julie and Clare all trying to get through to him but he was lost in his own little world.

I’m glad Julie and Clare had that chat in the ladies toilets and Julie helped Nigel remember who Clare was which was nice, it brought a tear to my eye especially when they took him to the care home.’

Martina Moore McCarthy connected to the episode on a personal level: ‘Brilliant acting by Phil and Nigel, Loving little Lexi too, superb acting from her. Tears flowed tonight, watched my own Mam go through this awful disease, it’s so hard.’

Sonia Swaby added: ‘The actors who play Julie, Phil and Clare take a bow! Fantastic acting! Honourable mention for Lexi! She’s a terrific young actress,’ while Marie Culhane added: ‘Fantastic episode, Steve McFadden was outstanding, as was the Paul Bradley. So true to life, I shed tears.’

Amy Michelle Lazenby shared her incredibly moving story: ‘I was sobbing. I lost my dad last year. Not to dementia but to a stroke. But knowing the end is near and you have to say those goodbyes is absolutely gut wrenching.

‘I’ll never get over that. Watching Phil and Nigel tonight brought back so many raw emotions for me that I just sat and sobbed with Phil. It’s the worst feeling in the world knowing you’re going to lose someone so special.’

…and this is what resonated so much with viewers. In a world of serial killers, explosions, gangsters and an entire lack of tumble dryers, the emotion remains in the humanity.

Fans have watched in real time as Nigel’s dementia has progressed without any sensationalism, just brutal realism. The journey of Julie and Phil as carers has shown two completely different, yet equally valid, reactions to what they’ve undertaken, again, with all of the grim reality that comes with watching someone you love fade away.

Clare’s experience of her dad no longer recognising her is something so many viewers will have endured, and Lexi, a little girl who’s lost far too much too soon, stepping up to help has shown the generational impact a terminal disease can have.

The celebration being underpinned with the hushed words of Oscar and George, confirming that, for many of them, they’d never see Nigel again, added to the sad reality of everything and the ultimate realisation of all of Nigel’s loved ones: time is running out.