Emmerdale star says ‘I can’t bear it’ as she up lifts lid on ADHD diagnosis
Former Emmerdale star Charley Webb has spoken candidly about her recent health revelations, parenting challenges, and life away from the soap, giving fans a rare glimpse into the woman behind the iconic Debbie Dingle role. In a heartfelt appearance on Luke Hamnett’s podcast Live, Laugh, Luke, Webb discussed how her recent diagnoses of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and autism have helped her understand herself and navigate her day-to-day life.
ADHD and Autism Diagnosis
Webb revealed that her dual diagnosis explains a lifelong sensitivity to noise, which has been particularly noticeable when caring for her three young sons. She admitted:
“Sometimes when I get back and I’ve been away from them, I forget how loud they are. And it takes me so long to readjust. I’m really overstimulated because they’re just so loud. Noise is my biggest trigger. I can’t bear it.”
The actress emphasized that recognizing these conditions has been liberating and allowed her to better understand her natural responses and coping mechanisms.
Parenting Style and Custody Arrangements
Charley and her ex-husband, Matthew Webb, share custody of their children on a week-on, week-off basis—a system that she initially found challenging but now embraces.
“At first it was really hard. For 50% of the time I was like ‘Where are my children?’ But now I’m living my best life … I’m so much better when I’ve had a week off from them. I can be a really good mum because I’ve had a break,” she explained.
Webb also shared insight into her relaxed parenting style, which she says encourages independence in her children:
“They don’t get fed and they don’t complain. I am like, ‘Get your takeaway. I’ve got to go… order what you want, I’m out’. It’s called character building.”
While she maintains her boundaries, Webb dismisses social media critics who suggest she should be spending more time with her kids, insisting that her personal time is essential for her own wellbeing:
“I have a week off and I’m going to do what I want. If I want to go to Australia, I am going.”
Life After Emmerdale
Despite being forever associated with Debbie Dingle, Webb has no plans to return to The Dales. She explained:
“There’s no plans for me to go back, just because I think it wouldn’t be the right time. Having three kids is a lot and also working there is a lot.”
Fans may remember that Debbie’s last appearance involved her relocating to Australia unexpectedly, leaving her daughter Sarah Sugden unaware of her departure until she called to share her cancer diagnosis.
While she is stepping back from soap life, Webb confirmed that she is not leaving screens entirely. Later this year, she will star in a provocative six-part ITV drama, Adultery, written by Danny Brocklehurst. The drama follows the turbulent lives of two single parents whose secret affair threatens their families, marriages, and personal lives.
“It’s a great cast. Dominic Cooper, Shelley Conn. I think it’s going to be one of those things that people binge,” she teased.
Personal Growth and Self-Understanding

Reflecting on her ADHD and autism diagnoses, Webb suggested that her autism traits are more pronounced than her ADHD, though both conditions contribute to her personality. She explained that many people misunderstand autism as a singular experience, noting:
“I think everyone has this idea of autism like it’s just one thing and it’s really not.”
Webb’s openness about her health has been praised by fans, who have highlighted the importance of discussing neurodivergence and mental health openly. Her honesty provides insight into how high-profile individuals manage personal challenges while balancing careers and family life.
While fans may be disappointed at the prospect of not seeing Debbie Dingle return to Emmerdale, Charley Webb’s upcoming role in Adultery promises a fresh and challenging chapter in her acting career. Her candid reflections on parenting, mental health, and navigating fame reveal a woman embracing both the challenges and freedoms of life beyond the Dales.





